"Girl Wonderful" signed:
I really have not read an article of this nature in a long time.
TMB: That's the nicest compliment I've received in months.
I have worked with Deaf people through education, relay
operation, schooling and parties. I have, honestly, never seen more
ignorance displayed in an article than this one.
TMB: Never seen more ignorance displayed? And yet you claim
to work with deaf people.
You should explain why you focus on such negativity.
TMB: Because that's my bag, man. It's what I do. It's who I
am. The Bitch couldn't survive without the negativity.
I mean, you are depending your ENTIRE article on the hate of Deaf
people off of one family that lives next to you...needless to say
that by your description you are living in the Ghetto,
TMB: Right, and in the ghetto, there are a lot of people
who live off the government, such as the Deaf. I don't think you're
going to find a large contingent of Deaf people living in 4-bedroom
Dutch colonials in the 'burbs.
and regardless if you are or not, there are MANY different types
of people in this world...and a lot of them are HARD working Deaf
people who do not live off of SSI and make babies all the time.
TMB: Name five Deaf people -- not deaf people
-- who work hard, do not depend on SSI for survival and make babies
only as needed.
I think you need to open up your eyes, educate yourself on TRUE
Deaf people and then write a NON negative article on it.
TMB: What is a TRUE Deaf person? If you can't hear, you're
deaf. If you can't hear and you think it's actually a lifestyle
choice, you're Deaf. Just because you don't like the image of some
Deaf people doesn't mean it's unTRUE.
You show in your article that you are biased against everything
and everyone by your descriptions of your neighbors and people
across the street.
TMB: You catch on right quick. I bet with that big, fancy
brain of yours, you do all kinds of stuff to make Deaf people real
smart, just like you.
Who raised you?
TMB: Gypsies. No, wait, it's the gypsies who kidnapped me,
and the wolves who raised me.
Are you 12?
TMB: Yes, I'm 12. I'm a 12-year-old 6th grader. Not only
that, I'm fat and ugly. In fact, I'm fat, ugly and secretly deaf.
Hence the anger and insecurity.
You really need to grow up and educate yourself because all you
are doing is making yourself look like an ass.
TMB: An ass who can hear.
I think you are the epitome (do you know what that word means?)
TMB: No, George, what does it mean?
of an ignorant person who is helping to change our society into a
rude, crass, and disrespectful society.
TMB: Maybe it's because I've been on this planet for a mere
12 years, but I don't recall ever living in a society that wasn't
rude, crass and disrespectful.
Like I said, lets see you write something positive...
TMB: If you want something positive, get your own site.
What, you did?
Quality stuff. Puts mine to shame.
maybe then people who have read your article(s) will think you
have at least one brain cell.
TMB: My readers don't even have one brain cell.
Anne Thomas Student (EDUCATED) Sign Language Instructor,
Interpreter for the Deaf, Relay Operator
Aenni Ahmad followed with:
Why did you put me on your "stupid people page"??
TMB: Because you're stupid. We're not talking rocket
science here.
That was totally unessecary because I was just asking why you are
dissing Islam... Don't you have like a reply button on your e-mail
program?
TMB: You'd have to ask Rogers Cadenhead about that.
But whatever... So many people seem to think that Islam, the
religion, is violent and stuff, but that is so wrong! People are
confusing some countries culture with religion (probably what you
did!!).
TMB: Religion does not operate independent of its
followers. Religions are their followers. A religion
comprises the beliefs, ideas and interpretations followers attach to
it. You can't separate the religion from those who practice it. The
personal is the religious.
I live in Sweden, but I'm from Pakistan originally, and I follow
the quran and everything it says. You know what? I do NOT bring
trouble to anything.
TMB: If you follow everything your holy book says, then I
find it hard to believe that you don't bring trouble. Anyone who
takes a religious book literally is bound to partake in wacky
antics.
Look, I admit that Islam has some pretty extreme followers... but
it's like that with EVERY religion! What about christianity and
their killing of 'witches' and everything?
TMB: Witches were killed in very mundane and time-consuming
ways, such as being drowned or burnt at the stake. And there weren't
very many killings. And it had more to do with personal vendettas
than the fear of widespread witchery. And it happened centuries ago.
Muslim extremists might be carrying on the religious tradition of
mayhem and slaughter, but they're living in a completely different
era than someone who was drawn and quartered during the Crusades. It
took months to kill as many people as a modern Islamic
fundamentalist can kill in one minute, and the events weren't
televised. Big difference there.
The ideology of religious extremism hasn't evolved much over the
centuries, but the kinds of tools to wage battle with have.
That's as bad as the talibans (who totally break the qurans
rules! they are not muslims) bombing some buildings. You can't say
that Islam is worse than any other religion out there because it is
not!
TMB: I can say that, and come to think of it, I will. As an
atheist, I'm the odd person out in the United States, but I've never
felt threatened because of it. I don't expect Christian
fundamentalists to fly planes into buildings or throw vials of a
biological agent on subway tracks or blow themselves up in Times
Square. (Just avoid abortion clinics and funerals for gay AIDS
victims, and you'll be fine.)
No other religion seems to produce the volume of fanatical and
loyal followers that Islam does.
Sure, I think Christians look down on me because of my lack of
belief, but while American society may have been built on Christian
ideals, our society certainly doesn't rise and set around them.
There is a distinct split between the religious and cultural, which
is something not seen too often in predominately Muslim countries.
Muslims are very peaceful people and I really think you shouldn't
talk when you don't know shit.
TMB:
Because you're an unbiased source.
LDejr@aol.com complained:
How dare you. You should rot in hell for your comments about Denise Matuza.
TMB: In an interview with the Associated Press, Denise
Matuza complained about the $300-500k she anticipated reaping from
the federal fund created to pay off the family members of the 9/11
terrorism victims. That money would come on top of her late
husband's 401k and life insurance.
Assuming Mr. Matuza had the good sense to provide well for his
family in case of the inevitable and unavoidable -- and as Ms.
Matuza claimed that $300-500k would be a "mere" three to five years'
salary, one would think he had the intelligence to think that far
ahead -- that's a lot of money for a family to live on, even if the
surviving head of household has mediocre budgeting skills. Her
whining doesn't tug at any heart strings, and one hopes that the
ensuing months have caused her to reevaluate her public comments.
You have no idea or understanding. You have no right to pass
judgement on her.
TMB:
She agreed to an interview with a news agency whose wire stories
are published worldwide. Surely, she considered the weight
of her words before speaking them, given the millions of people
who would read and dissect them.
Deep down you are an ignorant stupid person posing as a writer on
a nowhere no nothing website dregding up your names from other
writer's stories.
TMB:
Properly attributed stories, thank you. I'd get an interview
with an attention-seeking surviving family member if I could,
but I'm not in any position to offer them the kind of publicity
and financial assistance they crave. I can't further any agendas
or help them in their quest to bleed dry American taxpayers.
I'm sure there are perfectly wonderful family members who
are as equally repulsed by the greedfest, but they don't seem
to make it into Reuters articles or specials on MSNBC. Don't
you hate the concept of the squeaky wheel getting the grease?
Do a little research into those people you write about. Maybe
you'll learn something.
TMB: Yes, I'd learn that they're as shallow and
manipulative as I believe them to be. Millions of Americans lose
loved ones each year, and only a handful expect compensation for it.
Some are legitimate claims, while others are stretching it. Of
those, a tiny segment has the state of mind to do interviews in the
hopes of further positioning themselves as poor, needy survivors who
just can't get by on the paltry money being handed to them. If they
come across as selfish, they have no one to blame but themselves.
Aenni
Ahmad jihadisized:
I visited your site and I wonder why you have something against
muslims.
TMB: I can't imagine.
Muslims are stuck in the primitive phase before Christianity's
Age of Enlightenment. Which isn't saying much, true, but at
least intellectual analysis of Christianity's holy book is
permissible and even encouraged without too many professors
being shoved out of windows or beaten. All major religions
have their quirks and troublesome areas, but none seemingly
so much as modern-day Islam.
Christianity has evolved to the point that it's mostly a weekend
diversion for its followers, so people who live in predominately
Christian countries -- including those who aren't Christian -- find
even moderate forms of Islam extreme.
Do you know the truth about Islam and its culture?
TMB: Do you? Or do you blindly follow the religious,
political and cultural dogma spewed by Islamic leaders?
I think not because it's the most peaceful religion out there today!
TMB: If by "peaceful" you mean that trouble follows
wherever Islam treads, sure, it's the most peaceful religion out
there.
Perhaps Islam is the most peaceful religion in theory -- and I've
read enough of the Koran to doubt that -- but in order for a
religion to be successful, it needs followers. The followers,
unfortunately, are the representatives of the religion. And you kind
of need better representatives.
Get your facts straight, k?
TMB: Oh, no, you first. I insist.
"Nonna Yobiznez"
TMB: You'd think people would want to debate politics,
religion or my new layout, but it seems that we're always
going back to the issue of teen pregnancy. Teen mothers are
very insecure creatures.
Just to update your statistics....
TMB: I can't wait.
I was a teenaged mother WITH a high school diploma and am now
working on my M.A... TMB: In education or psychology?
oh P.S. I have never been on medicaid, welfare, food stamps,
nothing.
TMB: Is leeching off your parents that much better than
leeching off taxpayers?
I only have one child and she is in a private school.
My fiance and I just bought our first house.
TMB: Wow.
My friend, age 25, has 8 and 6 yr old daughters. She married
their father when she was 19.
Her husband was in the Navy and they have never been on
any kind of public assistance either.
TMB: Anecdotal evidence to the extreme!
She works for an insurance company.
TMB: An insurance company? She's gone far for
a teen mother. Color me in awe.
My best friend, age 23, has a 7 yr old daughter, 5 yr old
twins sons, and a 1 yr old daughter. Yes, they all have the
same father..her husband..who works in construction while
she is a stay at home mom. No welfare, either.
TMB: Anecdotal evidence overload, man. I don't think
my narrow-minded pea brain can handle it. Please don't tell
me that there are black people who didn't get their jobs due
to affirmative action. It might cause my bigoted head to explode.
Oh yeah she has a high school diploma and takes a few college
classes here and there at night.
TMB: Had she not gotten knocked up at such a young age,
she could have been a college grad by now. Why, she might
be employed, even!
I mean you must have a lot of self-hate to direct it out
at others like that, especially at people so much like the
people you came from.
TMB: I didn't come from people like you. I come from
a strange breed, but they had the good sense to put off having
children until they had enough money to pay for the inevitable
therapy.
I'm sure you know that teen preg. rates were higher in the
1950's than the 1990's...except in the 1950's the girls had
to get married or were hidden away, whereas now they choose
to stay single....much better system, you think?
TMB: What's wrong with getting married for the sake of
the child or hiding away until one gives birth and hands the
child over to a couple that has the resources to rear it properly?
If abortion was not an option to you, like it wasn't in
the 1950's..and birth control not widely available when you
started "fucking and sucking" would you have wanted a gun
to your head?
TMB: I'd simply not have intercourse unless I had the
ability to a) prevent pregnancy or b) access a somewhat reputable
back-alley butcher. Hey, kids, here's a helpful hint: oral
sex is fun, allows you to get off, and it doesn't cause pregnancy!
What a boring life you lead if you think all there
is to screwing around is sticking a dick into a vagina.
Maybe you would like living in the Middle East and having
your own male relatives beat you to death for getting pregnant
outside of marriage? Or hell, even just for "fucking and sucking"
outside of marriage. We can go back to that kind of system...I
mean would you like that better?
TMB: Slow down, Ms. Non-Sequitur. Stating that one should
have a child only when one is capable of giving the child
a stable life doesn't equate to wanting to live in a society
where teenaged girls get raped as retribution for familial
slights.
You wouldn't even have the freedom of voicing your ignorant
opinion, having an abortion, speaking out against the bible,
or being an educated unmarried working-class woman (presumably)
in her early 20's if the Women's Movement hadn't made that
possible for you.
TMB: From teen pregnancy to oppression in Muslim countries
to the women's movement. Before composing an argumentative
e-mail, I'd suggest that you make an outline of what you want
to say, so that your thoughts have some semblance of coherency
and cohesiveness. You're all over the map.
So you chose to take that "right" that you now have and
use it to fan the anti-woman right- wing fire?
TMB: And pro-woman, left-wing politics support teenage
girls having children?
And why should we place all the blame on the females? Where
is the demand for teenaged boys to keep it in their pants
or take responsibility for their children?
TMB: We already discussed this, but I guess you missed it.
Women get pregnant. Men do not. Those who would suffer
the most consequences from an action should be the ones in
charge of minimizing the consequences. If a woman does not
care enough about her life and future (and that of any potential
children) to prevent a pregnancy, why should a man show more
concern?
Women have all of the power in this country when it comes
to reproduction. It's not the fault of the patriarchy or anti-woman
right-wingers if they choose not to exercise that power.
Of course not, we encourage them to act like assholes and
drive Camaros.
TMB: There are people who still drive Camaros?
Teen pregnancy is hardly a new phenomenon..in fact women
were MADE to be having children young, not in their 40's!
TMB: Women had children at earlier ages because for most
of human existence, we didn't live particularly long. Fifteen
was middle-aged. To propogate the species, you had to hurry
up and breed before a flood, a carnivorous creature or disease
killed you. They didn't have medical specialists or Doppler
Radar in 1480.
What IS new is that we have created a society in which our
biological urges have to be stifled because in order to raise
a family you need a college education, 2 cars, a mortgage,
a husband, and a VISA card.
TMB: Many people are grateful that we're no longer slaves
to biology. Unfortunately, most of those people have traded
one form of slavery for another. No one needs all of those things
to be a successful parent. A family can survive just fine without
all of the trappings of modern materialism, but people impose
limitations on themselves.
Financial stability is important, but emotional stability
plays a greater role. Teenagers are balls of emotional instability.
They can barely decide what to wear in the morning, much less
plan the next 18 years of their life around another human
being.
And they really shouldn't have that responsibility at
such a young age. While there are some teenagers who can survive
being parents, many stop maturing altogether because they
haven't had a chance to make the kinds of small mistakes that
prepare humans for the biggest mistake they'll ever make.
"Teenage" culture didn't even exist until the 1920's....at
one time 17 was actually considered adult enough to take care
of yourself
TMB: "Teenage" culture didn't exist until child labor laws
were passed, thus lengthening the period of adolescence. If
kids couldn't work long hours in the factories or start an apprenticeship
at 11, something had to be done with them, and society opted
to place them in school until the age of 18.
At one time, a kid was golden if he graduated from high
school because very few career paths required anything more
than a high school diploma (or GED), so it was possible to
undertake adult responsibilities at 17 or 18.
As public education started aiming its curriculum at
the lowest common denominator (ahem), a high school diploma
didn't mean as much. Now, a person would have to be severely
retarded to not graduate -- and if that's the case, I'm sure
the state has a special diploma for their "special" students.
With a high school education being diluted, it became
difficult to find a job with just a diploma in hand. Employers
wanted something more, and institutions that were once meant
for the elite swung open their doors for the unwashed masses.
Which just further increased the time in which kids can be
considered "kids."
and we have now morphed into a culture that encourages
immaturity well into the 20's...or hell, even the 30's! You
are perfect proof of that.
TMB: You're right: receiving pages of long-winded e-mails
from "I done good fo' myself" teen mothers is perfect proof
of rampant immaturity in our culture.
So, really, the problem is not with young girls actually
*getting* pregnant...the problem is trying to make it work
because our society has made it impossible.
TMB: No, the problem IS with young girls getting pregnant.
In a country where birth control is available and affordable,
and abortion and adoption are both legal means of ridding oneself
of an 18-year commitment, there is no rational reason for teen
motherhood to exist.
How would you propose that we try to "make it work"?
Having a child at any age means a great deal of sacrifice.
Having a child when you're still legally considered one forces
a person to make sacrifices that have far greater consequences
than the ones a 35-year-old yuppie attorney makes.
The girls aren't equipped to deal with it because no one
taught them how to, and there is no one who will.
TMB: They aren't equipped to deal with it because there
is no preparation for parenthood. No length of carrying around
a sugar sack can prepare one for the enormous responsibility
of caring for another human being. It can't be taught because
it's an abstract concept until that squirming, bright-red burden
is placed in your arms.
The best anyone can do (short of euthanasia) is show
why teen parenthood is unfair and limiting to both the young
parents and their children, and hope that they make a decision
that overcomes their lack of life experience and maturity.
Teenagers have sex, we all know that will never stop...and
wherever you have sex, you have pregnancy. There is simply
no way to stop it.
TMB: Wherever you have irresponsible sex, you have pregnancy.
True accidents rarely happen. If a woman is serious about
preventing a pregnancy, she will, even if it means abstaining.
It would be far easier to figure out ways to deal with this
natural occurence than to vainly try and eradicate what our
bodies were meant to do.
TMB: Our bodies and minds are capable of and hard-wired
to do a lot of things. That doesn't mean we should do them.
We have evolved brains that allow us to consider the ramifications
of instinctive behavior.
Do you think that in 100 years if all goes your way everyone
will be middle class and teen preg will be a thing of the
past? Of course not.
TMB: In 100 years, one can hope the medical community
will have perfected methods to prevent "accidental" pregnancies.
This is the way the world works, people have children. You
know, since you don't have any (children) I don't know why
you're so concerned about us taking over anyway.
TMB: What would I be concerned about "all of you" taking
over? If you're too busy rearing children, about the only
places you'll have time to take over and fuck up are the non-smoking
areas of restaurants. I think we can rest assured that there
won't be a mass of teen mothers running for office.
You're being bred out of the food chain, honey. No one (thankfully)
will be left behind from your gene pool when you go.
TMB: It's the gene pool, not the gene tub. There's room
for more than one. As long as my relatives continue to procreate,
a little piece of me will survive.
So it looks like us 900,000 teen moms and our 180,000+ kids
will be running things? Cool.
TMB: Someone has to fill the prisons and prepare the
Chalupas. We all contribute in our own way, and it's probably
fair to say that if your children inherit your math skills,
that's about all they'll be capable of doing.
The precise reason you didn't have any children is because
God/Buddha/Shiva/The Universe wouldn't let an asshole like
you reproduce.
TMB: Funny, I thought the reason that I don't have any
kids is that I figured out how to prevent them, but I forgot
that children happen regardless of how much gosh-darn effort
women put into stopping conception.
You can use that angry voice of yours to fix the reality
of the world you live in or you can sit there on your high
horse and bitch about it and laugh at people.
TMB: There are nearly seven billion people in the world, of
which there are thousands of religious and political beliefs
for them to choose. Somehow, I don't think my lone angry voice
will bring them together. So, yuk it up.
I know that can be fun and all when you are bitter and ugly
but you are serving no purpose.
TMB: Did you not read the e-mails from other teen mothers?
You lose credibility when you drag out the "if all else fails,
I'll call you ugly" argument. I'm almost tempted to argue
that you might be immature.
It would be like me trying to stop dogs from barking.
TMB: If you train them right, you can. You don't like
to put forth much effort, do you?
You brought up abortion...but you obviously cannot encourage
that across the board as a solution! Pro-CHOICE is called
that for a reason.
TMB: I'm not pro-choice.
PS. the average welfare mother in the US is a white divorced
mother of 2 in her 30's.
TMB: There are more divorced white mothers in their 30s
than there are teen mothers, so it stands to reason that they
make up a larger portion of women who receive government assistance.
There's a big difference between 10% of welfare mothers
beings teenagers and 65% of teen mothers collecting welfare.
It is 3:30 am or I would get my sources out for you.
TMB: If you wanted to impress me with a factual, statistically
accurate look at teen motherhood, why not wait until you had
the time to write such an e-mail? I'd still be here. Being
all ugly and bitter and stuff, it's not as if I leave the
house.
I honestly don't know how you can get out of bed in the
morning, being so miserable and fearful.
TMB: Fearful of what?
You don't sound like a complete idiot..I know there's a
brain in there, why don't you use it??
TMB: I do. To your disappointment, it doesn't happen
to agree with you.
Maybe you should just kill yourself, then you wouldn't have
to worry about it anymore.
TMB: That's a terrific idea. I think anyone who doesn't
like something about the world should kill themselves. Then
Richard Simmons can have the planet to himself.
Or better yet, us dirty teen moms can hold the gun to YOUR
head.
TMB: Ending an attempt at a persuasive e-mail with a
threat always gets your point across. Or does it get my point
across? That damn brain of mine isn't working again.
Iumpcloud@aol.com grunted:
hey yourself who insult deaf people that can't read. well you are
wrong i read your article and i understand it perfectly clearly and
ur insulting us, deaf..there might not be all deaf that are stupid
but there's deaf that are kids are starting get more smarter than
adult cuz they being lazy and teacher was being easily back then,
but now it ain't being easy right now so you better watch your word
carefully. well you might surprised i got good english, well i'm
fuckn' deaf and i'm fuckin' smart kid already thank for your lot of
insult BITCH!
TMB: That stands on its own, doesn't it? Sara wrote:
Why spend so much time on giving your worthless opinions?
TMB: Because I'm a hideous, obese, reclusive virgin who is
reaching out for a little companionship. Finally, the truth comes
out!
because honey that is what they are, worthless.
TMB: Technically, you're right. I'm not selling my
opinions, and no one's purchasing them, so they aren't worth
anything. Unless there are enough people out there who'd pay for a
subscription. Um, are there?
Who exactly ARE you? (rhetorical question because, no one
actually cares.)
TMB: You seem to care. That makes me feel good. Would you
like to be my friend?
My advice to you, stop watching US teen sitcoms to inflame your
writing "talent", get off your overly used computer (the screen is
sick of your fat face) and GET OUT! get a life and stop polluting
the search engines.
TMB: You might want to take up the issue of pollution with
Google.
All I wanted to know about was acrylic nails and by the magic of
pressing the wrong button (made a mistake, human beings do that) I
got a fucking sermon from the warped cyber geek.
TMB: Your first mistake was wanting to know about acrylic
nails. How tacky.
Ciao baby, I'm sure someone out there feels some kind of emotion
for you. You keep wishing on that big bright star and you'll be
loved or hated I'm sure.
TMB: Starlight, star bright, first star I see tonight. I
wish I may, I wish I might, that Sara will be my first friend ever
because I think she likes me. But shhhh, I don't want to jinx it.
Sara wrote again:
Ever read a book 'The Handmaid's Tale' ? (I imagine you haven't.)
I have.
TMB: I saw the movie. Does that count?
You're not original.
TMB: Well, no. But I'm funny. That counts for something.
And the book sums you up and I hope your site gets busted because
giving your thick opinion on how people should breed and shouldn't,
live and shouldn't, is hard to stomach.
TMB: Even British Web browsers have back buttons.
It's been said that so far, everything written in that book is
coming true! wow.
TMB: Yeah, it's amazing how chemicals are destroying the
fertility of women to the point that the few remaining fertile
ones are forced to be broodmares, and I just can't believe
that women are no longer allowed to own property or learn
how to read. Margaret Atwood truly is the Edgar Cayce of our
day.
You're the next step though. One of the twisted-thinking people
who turn our curren utopia into a dystopia.
TMB: We currently have a utopia?
I never knew people like you really existed.
TMB: We do, and we're everywhere.
Now I understand why America is such a fag-ash country and a planet
all on their own. People like you live in it and re the result
of it.
TMB: Damn fucking straight.
Mariθve
Guιrin opined:
Hi. I went to your site and I think that you exagerated a
little...
TMB: You think?
I read the "homosexual agenda" article and I think
that you take homosexuality too seriously, like it is a virus that
is passed on to our little kids.
TMB: It has to be a virus because gays don't pass on their
genes, therefore, can't pass on their homosexuality reproductively.
They need to be quarantined for society's sake.
And thinking that your son is going to turn out homosexual
because he says something about interior decoration ??? WTF
??
TMB: No straight male shows an interest in interior
decorating.
I mean, I'm a woman, heterosexual, I have a boyfriend and I HATE
interior decorating. I just can't think of a more boring
activity...yeah maybe gardening...Does that make me a lesbian
because I DON'T like interior decorating ??
TMB: An absence of interest in interior decorating does not
make a woman a lesbian. An interest in interior decorating does,
however, make a male homosexual.
You know, women don't all like the same things and men don't
all like the same things. It's like saying that a man that
is good to cook is homosexual. I'm sorry, but my boyfriend
is a very good cook and we always cook dinner together because
we both like it. Does it mean he's homosexual ???
TMB:
I'd check his dick for brown stains, if that's what you're
asking...
I think you really exagerate a little !!!
TMB: Only a little?
You know, it's society who decided that women were obliged to
like to cook, clean, etc, and that men were obliged to like sports,
cars and pornography.
TMB: And has society ever been wrong?
I mean, are you saying that a human doesn't have the right to
like what he or she wants because society didn't say it was ok for
that person to like it ???
TMB: A human has the right, but the other humans have the
right to call him names and ban him from joining certain
organizations.
Later in that article you said that "real women stay at home with
their children". Ok, according to you, if I want both children and a
career, I have to give up one of my dreams in order to be a "real
woman" ???
TMB: Yes.
You know, I could never be happy if I was obliged to stay at home
and to take care of children, I need to work, to have a career, to
do something with my life, not to feel like I've ruined my entire
life by doing absolutely nothing but raising kids.
TMB: I'm sure your future children will appreciate your
disdain for them. May I suggest buying a hamster instead?
But I do want kids, I just don't want them to make me ruin my
life.
TMB: Kids sort of put a damper on life, whether or not you
think they should.
You know, men really have the best part in that world. They can
have everything. They can have a family, a job, everything. They do
have the right to go to work in the day and to come back at home at
night and to see their children only at night. Why can't we women
have that right ??
TMB: Because nature decided to provide females with the
necessary organs and hormones to continue the life cycle?
You have no idea I much I would love to have a job and then to
come home at night and to have my husband waiting for me, and with
dinner ready.
TMB: You have no idea how much I would love to have an Audi
TT, a villa on the Mediterranean and a job that offers 15 weeks of
vacation, but what I want and what is realistically attainable are
two separate matters.
But we women can never hope for such a life in our society. What
is sure is that I'll never be a housekeeper, I'd rather die than be
that...I will have a career and and I won't be the one to do all the
housekeeping stuff. Men in this society are so lazy, they never get
their big ass up to clean, cook or take care of the child...
TMB: And who's to blame for that? If men don't take an
interest in cleaning, cooking or taking care of the children, that
means the responsibility falls to the mothers. Therefore, mothers
are instilling in their sons and daughters the belief that certain
household tasks are "women's work."
You have to do what I did: find an obsessive-compulsive man to
date. Trust me, the cleaning always gets done.
My boyfriend will do that kind of stuff, I know he will, because
he's not like all the men in this society, he understands that if
both a man and a woman have a house and a job, then they should both
have to take care of that house.
TMB: Have you informed him of this master plan?
Keri Sommerville complained:
Perhaps I am a glutten for punishment
TMB: You're a 20-year-old with a two-year-old, and you're
not yet positive that you're a glutton for punishment?
but, I came across your website from a link that was posted on
The Labor Of Love.
TMB: And 2000 geeks scurry to Google to find The Labor of
Love site.
I am 20 years old and the mom to a two year old little girl that
is the love of my life.
TMB: My heart grew three sizes today.
Believe that one or not. I understand alot of what you say about
teen mothers even though I am one.
TMB: A glimmer of hope appears.
It is sad that teenage girls have children.
TMB: A ray of sunshine breaks through the dark clouds.
I learned from my experience but, I don't regret it at all. I am
deffinetly glad that you aren't looking to ever have children since
they would probably end up in some prostitution ring that is
>headed up by you and whatever sick ass thing that calls himself
a >man decides to be with you.
TMB: The glimmer of hope dims, and the ray of sunshine
disappears.
Teen mothers need to learn when to quit. Besides that. You start
out rational. You seem semi-intelligent. Then you throw in the
insult that drives home your immaturity.
And it's such a predictable insult.
You could have argued that my lack of firsthand knowledge about
the trials of teen motherhood disqualifies me from having a valid
opinion. You could have argued that most teen mothers are, in fact,
responsible parents, but since society's interests gravitate toward
the tragic, the minority of bad teen mothers receive most of the
attention because there's nothing noteworthy about a mother doing
her job properly. But, no. You went where every teen mother before
you has gone: questioning my worth as a woman in relation to the
kind of men I can attract.
Get a new act, ladies.
Do you plan on ever getting married
TMB: No.
or has your father forever turned you off to living happily with
a man out of love rather than just for cock?
TMB: Love doesn't tickle my cervix.
I would also like to throw in here that I have supported my
daughter and I soley on my own with no help from my parents, the
government, my friends.. etc.
TMB: Of course, of course. You're a strong, independent
woman who don't need nobody. You support your daughter. You pay your
bills. You fix your car. You built your house. You're a superwoman.
I hear your roar.
And we have been extremely happy from day one.
TMB: I can tell.
And now, I am with the man of my dreams and am getting married
soon. He is 15 years older than me and plans on adopting my
daughter.
TMB: He also plans on fucking her silly in 12 years, while
you're out working your two waitressing jobs.
I think that eventually you will get pregnant and decide not to
abort it but, have it instead
TMB: Because every woman wants to be a mother, and any
woman who says she doesn't is just running from a horrific past that
turned her against the sweet joy of spending 18 years rearing a
child who breaks her heart by getting knocked up while in high
school and marrying a pervert 15 years her senior.
and as long as you don't decide to sell it to some prostitution
ring or something worse.. Eventually I am sure you will find
yourself very happy with having children.
TMB: And I'm sure you'll find yourself very happy in a
double-wide.
Good luck in the future.
TMB: Your opening and closing were nice, but the part in
the middle could use some work.
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